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May 18, 2014

EXTENSION NEWS: Helping your children build self-esteem

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• Recognize the influence of your child’s peer group. Parents are the primary influence, but when they get older their peers take an increasing role. Help children recognize what authentic self-esteem is and that it is not dependent on money, clothing and physical characteristics.

• Respond to your child’s interest and efforts with appreciation rather than just praise. Children thrive on encouragement. Each child can have their own unique interest in a topic whether it is music, sports, animals, art, etc. Treat these interests seriously.

• Engage your children in a variety of tasks and activities that offer your children a real challenge. Activities need to be successful in their range ability. However, don’t ask your children to complete tasks that are beyond their abilities that can lead to frustrations and failure. Also, don’t engage your children in activities that are too easy as it can hinder their ability. 

• Help your children cope with occasional negative feedback and frustrations. It is important for children to experience success, but it is equally important for children to experience and learn how to cope with negative feedback and frustrations. Communicate that success in everything is not possible and that we all experience disappointment at times. Share examples with your children and help them cope.

• Avoid excessive and harsh criticism. Children need to be esteemed by parents. They need to be shown that they are valued and respected. At the same time, your children need to be corrected when they engage in behaviors that are inappropriate.

• Model for your children a healthy self-esteem. Children are influenced by parents and it is important for you to model these healthy qualities of self-esteem on a regular basis. Teach them also that you consider the feelings of others to be as important as your own.

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